SEX!!!!

[Ducks be us]

OH BOY...so, the wife says " I think it's gettin' about time to have THE talk with the boy"...I say " What talk"...she says " THE talk"...I say " Im 41 years old and still waitin' for the dad to give me the talk"

Question...at what age do you dads give the sons THE talk?
How detailed do ya get?
Is this even done anymore?

I learned EVERYTHING I know from the dads stack of mags...NEED A LITTLE HELP HERE...the boy is 10 for cryin' out loud

[blackhawk0718]

dad never had the talk with me. unless you count him telling me not to be a found wrap you tool

[chevy01234]

My dad is an OB/GYN and has never given me the talk

[MemphisStockBroker]

Mike, we started when our kids were much younger.... probably 6 or 7.
And we are conservative, southern Baptist, sunday-school teachin', church-going folk.
We didnt have "the talk", but we talk about it to them on a fairly regular basis - according to their ability to understand. About what our beliefs are, and what the consequences of premarital sex are. We didnt want sex and relationships to be a taboo subject, but something they knew we were serious about.

We have always had animals - and they did their thing... and from an early age the kids understand that the sexual act produced offspring.

Now that my kids are in high school and college, we have to deal with things going on with their friends, like homosexuality in high school, multiple sexual partners at 'parties', bi-racial relationships, sexual activity in public places (its common for high school kids have sex in the movie theaters !! ) - and since it is not taboo, our kids tell us what is going on with their friends.

Talk to them now, before they become sexually active and you have to deal with some unpleasant things in a few short years....

[ewd506]

A stock broker and a christian. No really what do you do? Tell the truth!

[Deltaduk]

mike,he has probably learned most of it from the kids at school.like mine THINKS he has.hell, i carried mine on a date the other nite.to malco's ,of course, he begged me to watch a different movie than they did.I told him i was gonna sit between them ,and he about had a cow.I did not sit with them ,me I went and watched "I AM LEGEND".

[Tedl10]

Dad told me at 13, "No glove, no love." Ya gotta wrap that rascal he later said, also.

[iron grip]

Never really got the "talk"...Did occasionally get a high five and an extra twenty for a fun night on the town

[smith]

with a name like iron grip it i wouldnt have left the house at all. jk with ya bud!

[sondance]

I think I was like 8. We came home fromchurch one sunday and he had this book we read together. Only it had me convienced you got pregnant from kissing

[Tedl10]

Only it had me convienced you got pregnant from kissing

Bwahaha

[Seymore]

Dad gave me the talk when I was 11. Being a doctor he had it broken down so clinical with medical charts and even a test at the end. It was all in medical terms and I had no idea what I had just learned.

Mom is a little more practical. As I got older she once told me, "Son, just remember it all looks the same in the dark." I near about choked on dinner. Of course I know now what she was telling me was that the person I marry is to be the person I'm married to in 50 years. Dad's charts are nice, but, I've got to live with her.

[mudsucker]

PIE charts? No talk from my old man either. My wife tells it like it is to our daughters so it will not be taboo also!

[Seymore]

PIE charts?

I hadn't caught that, but, that's funny right there. I'll have to send Dad an e mail and tell him his little test growing up had PIE charts. With 4 girls wife handles the talks around here as well.

[mudsucker]

I try. NOW what are you still doing up young man? It's late! (0156 here)