All the married folks....

[peewee]

TJ, first off let me start by saying I am sorry for you man. I now it hurts and it is bad. Now for some advice, I don't know much about you and your wife's relationship as of right now but I would encourage yall to go watch Fireproof together. Heck at least give it a shot if for nothing else for your girls.

Man I will be praying for you!

[grnhed]

TJ, Man I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I really hate to hear that and it honestly breaks my heart for you...It can happen to anyone of us at any time and it ussually happens to the best of us......I personally dont know what you are going through, but I see it everyday and I cant imagine having to go through it.....Its sad to think as many of us are on this board, it is probably happening to one of us poor bastards right now as we are sitting at work, and we dont even know.....It is truly a shame

I moved back to alabama, but you need anything or just someone outside of the situation to talk to, or simply an ear to listen dont hesitate to give me a call....

256-810-5983, Hal

[Sbroadus]

Sorry to hear that TJ. I don't know you but I fully understand. Not a day goes by that I don't miss being a family but it does get better with time. The woods is a good place to get away for sure, but one word of advise don't use it as a place to get away from it to not think about it but use it as a good place to relax and process everything and deal with it mentally so the healing process can begin. Remember to reinforce positives with the kids always talk positively to them. It will be hard but it will be the best for them.


As a friend of mine says "They all have snakes in their heads"

[LODI QUACKER]

MAN, I can only imagine the feelings!

I know there is nothing I can say that will make you feel better.

I only know a resemblence of how you feel, I have never been in your exact situation.

Let me tell you this, at this point the ONLY thing that matters is those little girls and yourself.

"Take the high road" BULLSHIAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How the HELL does a wife and mother do this kind of Crap???? I know you are asking yourself this question.

I dont know the whole story but in my opinion she doesnt DESERVE to be either!!!!

I do know that this is not a possibility and that this is eating you from the inside out, To HELL with Her, If she can put you and those little girls through something like this she absolutely does not deserve any type of emotions!!!!!!!!!!! Not love , Not hate, NOthing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is hard but, stop thinking of her as a person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LOWLIFE, LOWLIFE, LOWLIFE, LOWLIFE, !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just thinking about your girls breaks my heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANd I dont know you.


WHo the hell was it? Was it someone you have called a friend??? Good GOD, I hope not!!!!!!!!!!!!!


But she was, She is not worth your emotions brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!! take care of your little girls and completely ignore the fact that she is on this planet!!!!!!!!!! I know it will be hard to to but do not let her see how bad this is hurting you. She already knows that I am sure. Do NOT give her the ability to further know that she can cause you pain. The best thing to do is act like she is a complete stranger that you have to do business with.


YOU cannot trust HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN ANYTHING, I know this is obvious to you now, But I mean ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOu mentioned something about the split and it will not be bad. Just wait till she talks to a lawyer and her new dude. They will change her mind. I promise DO not trust or Believe a thing she says. If your the good guy you will turn around and she will have another blade in your back. The first one is the hard one for her after she crossed that line the further betrayals and lies to you will be much easier for her.

[tdog]

Sorry to hear it man, hear is the question that I got? Why in the hell is she going to get kids? I know how it works the courts are going to give them to her, but that shat aint right! Spend every dime you can trying to get those kids!

[edub20]

Sucks man! I can't even imagine what you're going through...Prayers sent up for you and the kids.

[weimhunter]

TJ from just knowing you from this site I can tell you are a well liked fun to be around guy. Dont let this change you. When the sad go,s away the mad will set in and after that you want give 2 cents about her cheating booty. Get a good lawyer and fight for those girls! If you think they will be happier with mom then at least fight for some good custody visits. Dont know how religious a fella you are but all my friends that have been threw this have found some peace by talking to there preacher. What she has done is sin! It is black and white in the bible. You live your life for those girls and be strong for them. If I can give you any good advice it is this, please talk to your friends, family or someone about what you are feeling. Dont hold this crap in. You got a invite to come over here and go turkey hunting, rabbit hunting or just get away anytime. And no, I will not take you to the The Pink Poney!

[4dawgma]

i'll take ya to de Pony Bros befo hos

[Coach]

Sorry to hear this... Stay strong.. don't do anything stupid that she can hold it against you no matter hard hard it is... I too have been right where you are...I wouldn't wish this on nobody...
Take care of yourself and those little girls.......PRAYERS SENT

[h2o_dog]

PM and prayers sent...

[Squealer]

Sorry to hear this TJ. Please know that we will be keeping you and your girls in our thoughts and prayers.

[Doc & Nash]

You know you can sue his booty...

[tdog]

You know you can sue his booty...

Hell yea thats what im talkin bout!

[LostBoy]

That sucks. My brother went through the same thing. Keep those girls your main priority. There is light at the end of the tunnel.

[LODI QUACKER]

It may be a light ,but if you dont do things right it may be the freakin locomotive headlight bearing down on you. Get a GOOOD LAWYER, TRUST NOTHING SHE SAYS, Try to get custody, PLAY DIRTY or at least get a lawyer that does!