All the married folks....

[slim jim]

I'd take care of the kids, first....but, I'd put up with her crap for about a nanosecond!!!....sorry, but I just would never be able to get over the thought of her willingly laying spread-eagle with her legs in the air in some motel room, and that slimy bast&rd, porking the h&ll out of her!!!

Hope it all works out for you and those little girls!!!

Dude edit your post, he dont need to be hearing that $#!+

[jkb87]

Bum,

firstly let me say i hope my dekes worked out for you.... wish we could have had lunch that day, but someone was too busy being in arkansas! (WIsh i was there as well) I hope all goes well, and if you need anything please let me know..... be glad to help when and where can.....

[Seymore]

I'd take care of the kids, first....but, I'd put up with her crap for about a nanosecond!!!....sorry, but I just would never be able to get over the thought of her willingly laying spread-eagle with her legs in the air in some motel room, and that slimy bast&rd, porking the h&ll out of her!!!

Hope it all works out for you and those little girls!!!

Dude edit your post, he dont need to be hearing that *!@#@*

+1

[dukbum]

beer and whiskey

[peewee]

Bum,
Go tell the whole story to his wife. See if she wants to get a little revenge.
Then me, Don Miller, Nawteek, and Rip em will whip his booty.

Bankermane is right about telling the fellows wife, not neccessarily for revenge but for respect TJ. You see she may be in denial or has no clue but she doesn't needs to know as of right now who she is married to and how her relationship is with her husband. What I am trying to say it would be for her longterm benefit, may not seem like it but it would. Noone should have to endure this.

[Gumbo]

Bank is right....

+1 on making sure his wife knows everything. Get documentation from your phone company, text transcripts, etc...from all lines. Use that as evidence.

He is liable to you legally, fo' real....and his employer needs to know as well...

[dukluk]

My post stands....Give Dbum some credit for being a stronger guy than you think he is....You see, Dbum is only human....no way around him NOT having those thoughts.....I KNOW!!!

[dukbum]

Bank is right....

+1 on making sure his wife knows everything. Get documentation from your phone company, text transcripts, etc...from all lines. Use that as evidence.

He is liable to you legally, fo' real....and his employer needs to know as well...

heres my problem with that she has her own cell phone we are on differnt accounts.....if i go to her work and tell em then she more than likely gonna loose her job too

[tdog]

Go to his house an take the valve stems out of his tires, let the air out, then put them back in. Wont help but it would be fun!

[Gumbo]

You can subpoena those records.
And yes, she can run the risk of losing her job. That would actually strengthen your custody position to have her unemployed...

I know that is a difficult decision, but remember that she put herself in this position.

Having her put on notice from her employer would definately drive home the seriousness of this, but you need to get your hands on some documentation.

Hang tough man...

[leadsthebest]

I don't know what you are going thru first hand, but one of my good friends went thru basicly the same thing, and we talked alot. I helped him as much as I could and now he is doing ok. I will pm you my phone number if you need anything just call.

I don't know you, but am willing to help a brotha out!!!

[DUCKAHOLIC]

Ok I have stayed out of the yah yah for the most part.......but here is a fact.....

We live in the SOUTH where "MAMA" is a huge thing..........a judge will not take kids away from "MAMA"......because she is unfaithfull, unemployed etc etc.............she has to just about be a crack whore for this to happen............

Belive it if you want or not........my wife is a court reporter in Chancery court....she sees it everyday.

[RIPPY]

My brother was messing around with a girl at work his wife found out called the GM and they both lost there jobs. So I would think long and hard before I called the company. Because jobs are hard to find and you will be the one with all the financial burden for the kids and wife. Odds are this man going to stay with his wife and kids your wife is going to be on her own. I would not worry about the man if I were you. Your wife is your family and alot of people will not agree but put in the right place at the the right time most women will cheat and men will do the same. That man is nothing to you he may or may not like you ,may or may not know you or care about you. If the man came on to her and she let him its her fault if she came on to him its her fault she did this to you not the man......WOMEN ARE All you can do is hope they used protection for your sake. If my wife is cheating on me right now(i havent any reason to think she is but she is human) it would not suprise me one bit I dont sit and think about it. What I dont know wont hurt unless she brings a vd to the house and then its gonna be her booty. Good luck and prayers sent...

[RIPPY]

oops

[dukbum]

Ok I have stayed out of the yah yah for the most part.......but here is a fact.....

We live in the SOUTH where "MAMA" is a huge thing..........a judge will not take kids away from "MAMA"......because she is unfaithfull, unemployed etc etc.............she has to just about be a crack whore for this to happen............

Belive it if you want or not........my wife is a court reporter in Chancery court....she sees it everyday.

yea you rite! iam not trying to keep her from getting kids i just want his wife to know and make him suffer she says it aint about him its about us now.....BULLSHAT!!!!!!!! thats what started this crap in the first palce! we being civil between me and her i think why she is so i want persue him.....maybe so maybe not!