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Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:42 am
by dukbum
i tell ya thanks for all the replies its hard to read em while keeping my eyes dry. its amazing the folks on here that have never met me or much less ever replied to a post of mine but have offered a back boat sit and beer or a ear to listien to or even a bed :shock: :shock: thanks teul2 but if you gonna be in it we go to sleep we gonna sleep "pole to pole or hole to hole" NOT "POLE TO HOLE" really thanks for everybody's thoughts and prayers i dont know whats gonna happen now iam gonna make as easy as i can for the both of us we agreed together on everything so i hope there is no problems. its gonna be tough on my girls 2 year old and 5 year old but they know there daddy loves em and will be there for em all the way no matter what!

thanks again will be posting as always cause this site helps me get away from the hustle and bussell and of course i would not wanna miss a chance to pick on GH22 that would be a sin :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



ole bum keeping puffs kleen-X in business or at least (proctor & gamble the distributor of kleen-X) :)

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:46 am
by Jeff
Dang man, just know you from your posts on here. Over the years I have seen you post many pictures of doing stuff with your family, especially your kids. From what I have been able to know of you, definetly don't try to blame anything you did for causing this (don't think you will). All you can do is try and live your life correctly and hope everyone else around you does the same. My theory anyway.

Just love your kids as much as you possibly can, and if you need a trip to New Orelans later on when it warms up, come on down and well fish at the camp while you are here.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:02 am
by blindbuilder
Hate to hear that story. I have a 3 year old girl and have another on the way (may), and could not think of being away from them one night. Let them girls know how much they mean to you, as often as you can. Good luck man.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:18 am
by pondman
TJ,

If I can do anything at all let me know. I feel for you. If you need to break loose and catch a fish holler at me; I can make it happen.

Pond

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:21 am
by Bankermane
I got an idea. Let's go whup his booty.

If it makes you feel better, the second one is way better than the first one. Time will cure all.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:23 am
by Bonehead
TJ, I have been very burdened for you and your family ever since I saw your post last night. I am truly sorry and am praying for you and the girls.

Shaun

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:31 am
by DUCKAHOLIC
Son of a baitch.................damn TJ I hate that for ya.......you got my # if you need or want to hang out you just call it anytime day or night.........


Now lets do what pa-paw said and go whip his ass................

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:35 am
by jtdumallard
tj i really hate to hear this. its kinda something that hits close to home for me. ive been watching one of my siblings go through the same thing and also has 3 kids, ages 4 and twins that are 8 months. its hard but as its been mentioned before, know that lots of folks are praying for you. You will be a better man and father after this whole experience. prayers sent

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:46 am
by Deadeye
Me too TJ, hate to hear it bro. I wish I had something to say other than that. I do agree with a previous post, take the high road on this one... there are two beautiful little girls involved and that's their momma.

My prayer is that God changes her heart and this can be worked out for good so you and your wife can raise these girls and have lots of grand babies one day.

Dead

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:55 am
by Gumbo
One door closes, and another one will open....
Hang tough, bro.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:00 am
by deltadukman
Dang bud,

When I got to work and read this this morning it hurt me. Like I said when I test you, if you need anything...and I mean anything...let me know. From getting to know you and your family I always looked at you and and your girls and thought "they have the best daddy in the world"(true story)...like someone mentioned earlier, and it's my favorite biblical phrase "This too shall pass". I hope and pray that everything goes smoothly and that God's will-will be done wether be it working it out or splitting ties. You love those girls like it has never happened and I know they know there daddy loves them will all his heart.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:02 am
by waterfowlwidowmaker
Damn Dude! Sorry to hear that. Please call me if you need anything. Seriously....

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:21 am
by GulfCoast
I hate to hear that. I have friends going through that now. We will be praying for you, and keep your head up, you ain't done nothing wrong!

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:22 am
by tombstone
don't know you from Adam, but I have 2 daughters that are 2 & 6, and can not imagine the pain you are going through. A guy named "TJ" will be in my prayers as will his daughters. Love on them every second you get and although it might be hard sometimes, take the high road because they will appreciate it and recognize it as they grow older. I can speak from experience on that, as my parents were divorced when I was a kid.

Re: All the married folks....

Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:38 am
by farmerc83
I've only been around you a couple times but it hurt my heart to read your post. In time the pain will pass and you'll get back to being your jovial self. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.